
This isn’t sex ed as you know it.
This is research backed, pleasure focused, client-led exploration designed to empower you with the skills to invigorate and expand your sexuality.
Welcome to Come Quiver.
Great sex is a skill. Add it to your quiver.
Great sex is a skill. Add it to your quiver.
Hey, I’m Nic
(she/her)
A somatic sexologist and spicy photographer based on the NSW Mid North Coast, and I’m so excited you’re here!
I’m passionate about supporting others in gaining confidence in themselves and their sexuality whilst developing deeper connections with their body.
My role is to empower you to navigate your sexual exploration by providing quality sex education on topics you actually want to know about!
FAQ
You’ve probably got a few questions
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Somatic sexology is a holistic educational approach to sexual health and pleasure, integrating somatic and embodied practices to explore emotions and sensations within the body. Somatic sex coaching utilises these tools (such as breathing, mindfulness, shifting awareness) to reflect on what you’re currently experiencing sexually, and where you want to get to.
TLDR: instead of just talking about what’s in your head, we listen to what your body is saying too.
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Believe it or not, I too was a bit sceptical at first, but the more I studied, practiced and researched about somatics, the more I grew to understand how profound and life-changing this work can be. Really, if you think about it, being more in touch with your body and how it feels is only going to improve your relationship with and understanding of sexuality and pleasure.
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Historically, sex therapy has focussed on the diagnosis of a dysfunction or disorder, with the goal of returning an individual to a ‘normal’ level of functioning. In recent years, sexual health and wellness has expanded beyond simply managing dysfunctions, risk or reproduction, and towards a movement of sex positivity and sexual pleasure!
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Absolutely everyone. No matter your background, experience, age or sexuality, I am here to support you, not judge you. I want you to feel seen, heard and safe.
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I offer spicy shoots to individuals, couples and groups.
Get in touch for a copy of my intimate photography booking guide.
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Book a 15 minute introductory phone chat with me. Completely free.
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